All my life I was searching for the love that only I could give. When I had that realization, it was so profound. The love I wanted was in me all the time and I could experience it whenever I wanted, without any conditions. I've learned the following, in the hope that you will find that love in yourself as well.
What you want – Become it first
All the things we want in partnership, we have to do first for ourselves. A conscious relationship has the ability to do the deepest self-employment. It takes two people to be individually involved in their expansion. This expansion begins in. Traveling to this place in ourselves is one of the greatest processes we can experience as humans. For this we have to step into our power. Too often, we hold back and sabotage our potential by opposing what is most appropriate for each one of us. We stay in old patterns and outdated friendships because they are familiar. out of habit we fall into a place of loneliness. The inner work of finding out what is in our truth and direction requires us to deliberately sit with us; not from a place of loneliness, but from a place of deep love.
Calm down, in your own truth
It is important to understand how to sit in our silence and in the depths of our truth. We have to be able to be with him and not run away. The longer we can sit here, the easier it will be to make decisions that are true for us. To do that, we need to set and prioritize this time for ourselves.
It is crucial that you take the time to dare yourself and your shadows and listen to the teachers of your soul.
Sometimes women find it difficult to meet society's expectations of us, but it is not selfish to put themselves first and find a community around them to support it. I believe it is important that as women we have fellowship, work together ceremoniously and find a holy family as we enter this place of power and truth. Only from a place of truth is true love born. True love needs nothing. I believe that true love is a state of being. It does not demand anything; Rather, it radiates and warms those who come in contact with it, much as the sun warms the earth.
Let go the expectations were taught from childhood to wish great love. I used to think that it was just about finding someone who loved me the way I loved them. I realized that nobody loves me like me except me. The magic of a kiss or the smell of another person is one of the most beautiful experiences we have had. Doing this for ourselves first is the key to a conscious relationship. Be what you need, and then the rest will be more magical and free. Let go of all the expectations that society has placed on love. I believe experiencing and expressing love freely from a place of wholeness, the magic of life is banal and ask you that – what have I been waiting for in me? Remember how you access it. There is no specific roadmap. Each person can follow a different template – find yours.
I've written the whole method about my own path to unity, but it's not about telling you how to do things. It reminds you that you have your OWN method. Your way, the way that brings you back to wholeness. The method back to wholeness requires that we face all parts of ourselves. The person you always knew you could be is waiting for you in the darkest corners of your soul.
Jump in there, dear heart. Your true potential is waiting. The time is now. They are more powerful than you will ever know.
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